Helping high-achievers and purpose-driven people resolve what stands in the way of the deeply satisfying relationships they want.
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Do you want to finally break the patterns that keep you from the satisfying love you actually want?
Boldly Break Your Patterns and Take the Actions that Allow You to Manifest the Love You Deserve.
Would you like to be celebrating more secure, satisfying and deeply fulfilling relationships in the next six months?
You’re smart; you’re a naturally driven, high-achieving professional with your eye on success…but you’re not just interested in succeeding at anything, though you could.
You want it all. You’re here for a life of passionate purpose and you’re here for real, true, full-sacred-F*CK-yes love. You’re here for nothing less than soul-satisfaction.
But, when it comes to love there have been some…challenges; some detours from what you thought was your happily ever after.
Sometimes when you see others easily thriving in their relationships you think that maybe being really smart has somehow made you really dumb in love.
While it’s true that the parts that have made you successful and driven are often the same ones that can be causing pain in your relationships, it's also true that you have everything you need to change this.
See, your issue isn’t necessarily getting into relationships, because you’ve had them. It’s the fear you’ve accumulated since your world was shattered by a rude awakening and the patterns you keep repeating.
That nasty wake up call of ‘where the hell’ did this pattern come from and how did I attract this?
This isn’t your first rodeo; you’ve been there and done that with the once-good, turned dumpster-fire relationships and now you’re way more discerning.
I know exactly how it feels to see the patterns but not know how to shift them, wondering if you can trust yourself again to try and discern what healthy love is.
I’ve helped countless people just like you break free—and I’m here to help you, too. I'm dedicated to giving you now exactly what I needed then.
Like my client, Jason, who was swinging between dating more emotionally unavailable narcissist types (they felt exciting) to dating emotionally available types (they felt boring).
He was looking to get married, but kept getting caught up with the exes and finally wanted to end the cycle for good.
At first, he couldn't see how to break the pattern of going from one extreme in relationship to the other, but after learning the Emotional Alchemy framework, he was able to understand the cause and go straight to the origin of those patterns that had him going back and forth.
Jason was finally able to end it with BOTH types — that he was never truly aligned with anyway — and powerfully shifted the entire course of his relationships.
These changes allowed him to clear his plate of people that were taking up space and wasting his time, and within a few short months, he met his wife.
Now, you’ve done the work, you’ve educated yourself extensively on what's is actually going on with therapy, books, law of attraction, podcasts, courses, self-discovery and you know that:
You’ve been creating your relationships both consciously and unconsciously. You can see the evidence.
You’ve been brave and you’ve made it through the last round, though it was tough.
This time, you’re ready for something different. You don't just want to do it better, you’re ready for the real deal.
You’re ready to master this game we call love and finally win.
And to get something different, you understand this is a new level.
Like encountering a new boss in a video game, like moving from the bunny slopes to the blue slopes or graduating from hiking in upstate New York to Mt. Everest…
When you up-level, you know that isn’t just the devil in the details, but this is also where you’ll find love if you know where to look.
You have been on a journey. Welcome, traveler. I hope you’ll take a moment to be proud of all you’ve accomplished, healed and transmuted in love thus far.
You Deserve The 'More' You're Seeking.
You dream of building an incredible life with your beloved—traveling sun-drenched coasts hand-in-hand, laughing together as you make pancakes on easy Saturday mornings, sipping coffee and creating memories that last a lifetime...
You want that deep, fulfilling connection that makes every moment feel special. And you’re ready to find the solid foundation and trust in yourself to make it all possible. You're ready to step into your true self, feel emotionally safe, confident and free.
But, In Order to Get Where You Want to Go, You’ll Need to Course-Correct.
This is why you’ve haven’t been able to create that deep satisfaction you’ve been craving in partnership just yet:
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Without a proven process for you to spot exactly how the relationship challenges are being created, there's no foundation for a system to understand how to break the patterns.
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You’ve gotten good at seeing the obvious red flags but there's a hypervigilance that makes you want to torch the yellow flags and stay cynical about the green flags.
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You’re still healing, learning and acting largely from logic and intellect (because you got burned by trusting your emotions).
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There are things you’re still letting slide and attractions you're still entertaining because there are unconscious pay-offs.
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The way you're interacting with your emotions isn't getting to the root and releasing the core of the patterns that you see repeating (otherwise you wouldn’t be repeating them).
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You don't having the steps to take your knowledge into planned actions and new behaviors, so you're winging it.
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You’ve been trying to access your deeper blindspots alone or with those who are as blind as to them as you are.
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You still have secret compartmentalized wounding that’s showing up in your relationships and keeping you in patterns of fear.
Here’s how this can play out in real life:
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Repeating cycles of anxiety, frustration, and confusion in relationships leaving you feeling powerless.
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Attracting emotionally unavailable or non-committal partners even though you've done the work.
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Hot and cold cycles of excitement and progress, then disappointment.
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Watching your emotions drive decisions that you later regret, with your relationships suffering for it.
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Seeking solutions, but no matter how much you read, listen to podcasts, or search for advice, nothing much changes.
If any of this feels familiar, it’s not your fault. But it is time for a change.
Imagine This Instead:
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Trusting yourself in relationship to make the right decisions and navigate challenges with confidence.
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Mastering your unconscious blocks, triggers and emotions with ease, so they're no longer running your relationships.
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Discerning healthy love and behaviors in others from the true red flags and deal-breakers.
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Attracting deeply fulfilling, emotionally-safe relationships that allow you to thrive and be your best self.
It’s time to reclaim your power in love.
Really, What if You Could Master Your Old Patterns + Manifest the Love You Deserve?
It's natural to make our patterns and vulnerabilities the bad guy, but they're actually showing us what's still unresolved and untested when it comes to our past, who we believe we are and what we believe we can have.
When you change your relationship with these patterns and recognize how to shift effectively, you open the door to the love you’ve been seeking. When you master what's going on at your core, you take back control of your relationships—and your life.
And it’s time to own + become intentional with what you've been creating and recreating in your relationships.
And that’s exactly what we’re here to do.
Introducing Emotional Alchemy:
A 16-Week Coaching Program to Change Your Relationships from the Inside Out
In Emotional Alchemy, we’re going to help you interrupt the cycle of relationship confusion, reclaim your power and manifest the deeply nourishing love you're truly desiring.
This isn’t just another “self-help” course. This is an experiential transformation where you’ll actually implement neuroscience-based tools to rewire your brain and your emotional responses.
This is a no-fluff, step-by-step process that shows you how to alchemize your emotional pain into power. You’ll learn to rewrite your love blueprint and create relationships that actually feel good.
Here’s How Emotional Alchemy Will Transform Your Relationships:
16 Weeks of Live Coaching: Get real-time support from an expert coach in our weekly deep-dive, live coaching sessions.
We’re not just talking surface-level stuff—we’ll get to the root of your relationships blocks so you can release them for good.
Virtual Modules with Neuroscience-Backed Training: Access 12 on-demand video training modules packed with cutting-edge neuroscience, attachment theory and practical exercises made easy.
You’ll know exactly how to rewire your attractions for love and connection with the step-by-step training.
Private Group Support (24/7): Need help between sessions? You're not alone. We’re in this together to help you break through your blocks.
You’ll have private access to a high-touch, tight-knit community where you can get support, share breakthroughs and celebrate wins. We'll hold you through the processes, create accountability and provide guidance.
A Year of Access: Life happens, and transformation takes time.
That’s why you’ll get 12 months of access to all the course content so you can keep growing long after the 16 weeks are over.
The Results You’ll Get:
By the end of this program, you’ll have the skills to:
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Self-soothe and calm your triggers so you can stop feeling anxious or reactive in your relationships.
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Communicate with confidence and have honest, meaningful conversations without fear of pushing your partner away.
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Set boundaries with ease, without guilt or second-guessing.
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Stop abandoning yourself for others and create relationships where you feel safe and secure.
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Create secure attachment so you can finally attract and maintain the healthy, soul-satisfying relationship you’ve been dreaming of.
These are the kinds of transformation clients experience with Emotional Alchemy.
Who Is Emotional Alchemy For?
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If you’re tired of sabotaging your relationships with triggers and old patterns.
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If you’re ready to break free from emotionally unavailable partners and finally feel secure in love.
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If you’re done with consuming endless relationship advice that never seems to work.
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If you want to feel calm, confident and empowered in your relationships.
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If you desire to feel good no matter your relationship status.
This Is Your Moment.
Imagine waking up every day feeling calm, confident, and masterfully surfing any challenges that arise.
Imagine being in a relationship where you feel deeply seen, heard and loved—because you’ve built a rock-solid foundation within yourself first.
This is possible for you. Right now.
You don’t have to do it alone. You don’t need to figure it all out on your own. You just need the right tools, the right support and the right guidance.
Ready to Break Free + Create the Love You Deserve?
Join Emotional Alchemy and unlock the door to personal mastery and soulmate-level relationships. This process has worked for hundreds of clients and now it’s your turn.
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Applications close 11/15/24.
Let’s Make This a No-Brainer
Whether you know already that you'd like to join or if you’re feeling even a little bit unsure about whether this program is right for you, I’ve got something to help you make your best decision:
Book a FREE discovery call with me right now. This call is 100% for you.
This call is completely free, no strings attached, and it’s designed to help you decide whether Emotional Alchemy is the right fit for you.
We’ll get crystal clear on your relationship challenges, and I’ll show you exactly how this program can help you overcome them.
No pressure, no commitment—just clarity.
We’re accepting a limited number of participants to ensure personalized attention, so don’t wait.
Book Your Free Discovery Call Today
Click the link below to schedule a 1:1 call where we’ll explore if this transformational program is the right fit for you. You’re one step away from changing your relationships—and your life—forever.
Why Now Is the Time to Take Action
Let’s be real—you’ve probably been uncomfortably aware of these patterns for years. Maybe even decades. And if you don’t take action now, where will you be a year from today?
Still searching for answers, still feeling confused, still wondering if you’ll ever allow yourself to receive the love you crave.
It’s time to break the cycle.
Applications for Emotional Alchemy close on 11/15/24 and spots are limited —because this is a high-touch, deeply transformational experience, we only accept a small group of dedicated individuals who are ready for change.
Are you ready?
It’s Time to Become the Co-Creator of Your Relationships
You already know that repeating the same patterns and doing the same thing you've done won’t get you where you want to be.
Now is your chance to take back control of your love life, heal your relationships and manifest the kind of love that sets your soul on fire.
Don’t wait. You deserve this.
Stop recreating the same dissatisfaction in relationships + start creating the love you know you deserve.
Click below to book your free discovery call now.
Applications close 11/15/24. Spaces are limited, so act now!
But Wait –Why Should You Trust This Process?
Because it’s worked for hundreds of others just like you.
People who were tired of repeating the same painful relationship patterns over and over again and who finally broke through with the Emotional Alchemy framework.
They went from anxious, confused, and emotionally drained to feeling:
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Calm and in control of their emotions and relationships.
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Confident in their ability to handle relationship challenges.
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Magnetic to the kind of love they’ve always wanted.
If you're willing to show up and do the work, the changes will happen. If they can do it, so can you.
The Details:
Our welcome call is Monday, 11/18/24 at 11:15am CST.
Program Overview
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Live Coaching: Join us for 16 weeks of weekly, one-hour coaching calls on Mondays at 11:15 am CST, plus eight bonus calls (every other Thursday at 11:30am CST) for additional support. Each call offers deep-dive coaching and covers questions and insights. Note: No sessions from 12/29/24 - 1/4/25.
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All Recordings in One Place: Can’t make it live? Every call is recorded and available in your private community space for easy access.
The 12 Learning Modules
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On-Demand Learning: Access 12 transformative modules anytime on your phone or computer, hosted in your private community space on Mighty Networks. Each module is designed with concise teachings and actionable practices to help you build skills and create lasting change through habit and repetition.
Community and Support
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Connection and Accountability: Gain access to your own private, supportive community on Mighty Networks with dedicated groups and discussion threads. Check in between sessions for ongoing guidance, accountability, and support from both your peers and your coach.
Time Commitment
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Daily Practice: Expect to spend around 20 minutes per day on modules and personal exercises.
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Weekly Support: Participate in a one-hour live coaching call each week, with the option to join a bonus call every other week. Average time commitment: 2–3 hours per week.
FAQs
"What sets this program apart from others?"
Many programs throw a lot of information at you without addressing the real root causes. This isn’t about surface-level tips or tricks. In Emotional Alchemy, we dig deep into the patterns that are sabotaging your relationships, so you can permanently break free from them. This program is unlike any other—it’s trauma-informed and focused on practical, neuroscience-based tools for relationship mastery. It’s based behavioral and experiential learning, meaning you’re not just learning—you’re rewiring your responses and applying real-world tools every step of the way.
"I'm interested in joining, but I'm also a busy person...is this still for me?"
This program is designed for busy people like you that are willing to make time for their relationship future. You’ll need about 2 hours a week, including the live coaching calls and any self-paced exercises. The great news is, the program is broken down into smaller steps. You’ll be able to implement the strategies in real-time, so it integrates into your life seamlessly. Plus, you have a full year of access to all the materials, so you can revisit the lessons as often as you need.
"How will you help me get the results I'm seeking?"
We’ve designed this program to support you every step of the way with live coaching, personalized feedback, and a private support group. If you’re committed to the process, you’ll see the transformation. It’s impossible not to, because we work directly with the root of what’s holding you back, and you’ll have our full support in implementing the tools to shift it.
"Sometimes I travel for work and may have to miss a call or take my time with the modules, would that still work?"
This program is designed with flexibility in mind. You have access to all the materials for an entire year, so if life gets busy, you can always catch up at your own pace. Plus, our community and support group are here to keep you on track, so you never feel like you’re doing this alone. All of our calls are recorded, so if you need to miss you can always catch the replays.
"What kind of support can I expect to receive?"
You’ll have weekly live coaching sessions, a 24/7 private group, and access to all the course materials for a year. You’ll also have me and my team supporting you every step of the way, so you’ll never feel like you’re doing this alone. The level of personalized attention you’ll get is designed to ensure you’re fully supported in achieving your breakthrough.
"What's the best way to sustain program results?"
The shifts you’ll experience during the program will set you up for lifelong change. You’re not just learning new information—you’re rewiring your brain and changing how you relate to your emotions, meaning the results will stick well beyond our time together. After the program ends, you're welcome to stay in the community and grow with us – you choose your level of interaction. After the 16 weeks, you’ll still have a year-long access to all the materials, so you can revisit the tools and training whenever you need.
Change Takes Courage:
It takes a lot of courage to break through old patterns and try something new. It also takes a lot of courage to speak to a stranger on the internet about your vulnerabilities. I’ve found that great change often lies at the intersection of desire and fear. You know you want to do this, but there’s also fear—excitement (and sometimes terror) around the unknown.
If you make the leap and commit to what you’re creating, you’ll discover that you are, indeed, a creator. We all have fears; that’s what makes us human. Heroes go on the journey where their soul calls them.
Only you truly know if this is your moment and if this is in alignment with your path. I’m also happy to help you make the best decision for yourself, as it benefits everyone when you’re in the right place at the right time.
From Pain to Purpose: Why I Teach What I Do
In 2009, I had a heart-wrenching awakening when my then-husband asked for a divorce. It was then that I realized I had no self-esteem. I was experiencing regular emotional breakdowns, so I thought I was "feeling my feelings." I cried on the floor in the fetal position over relationship pain more times than I could count, and the worst part was feeling completely powerless over my emotions and love. I was knee-deep in abandonment and betrayal patterns, asking myself, 'How did I get here?'
On my journey, I discovered was that I was essentially the poster child for covert complex-trauma and fearful-avoidant attachment. I experienced the extreme anxiety and vulnerability of anxious attachment, along with the sneaky, subtle avoidant attachment behaviors that were sabotaging my relationships. Both were deeply painful. I had to do healing work because the patterns were sabotaging my relationships and my purpose. My journey led me to many shocking realizations about how my unhealed trauma and unconscious defenses were distorting my perspective of myself, my inner relationship, and my external ones.
I began studying everything I could on trauma, relationships, attachment, polarity, psychology, the subconscious, masculine and feminine energy dynamics, reparenting, and codependence—with many incredible mentors and top experts in the field. Thousands of hours of training, hundreds of thousands of dollars in education and courses, and two certifications later, I began coaching.
I've dedicated the past 15 years to self-healing, discovery, and helping as many people as possible liberate themselves from their own fears, stories, and patterns. I believe that if my journey had been straightforward, it wouldn’t have required me to dive as deeply as I have to become an expert in this work.
At this point, I've worked with hundreds of amazing and inspiring people; you can check out some of their testimonials below.
TESTIMONIALS
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Kara K.
“After a few short months, my energy had shifted causing friends to wonder if I had a secret boyfriend as the source of my glow-up!
My approach to dating and relationships has shifted from anxious and stressed, to curious and playful. With her gentle and humorous guidance, Angela helped me release the tethers of my protector parts and fearful avoidant attachment style that had dimmed my light for many years.
I've truly embraced main-character energy and am having the time of my life. Working with Angela has been one of my best investments in self-care.”
Deidra R.
"My biggest breakthrough was that I had anxious and avoidant attachment and that there was going to be constant interplay. I can now grasp onto and feel that feeling of secure attachment a lot more easily than before.
I wanted to feel sturdy, I feel sturdier. I know the path to sturdy, feels, acts, looks, and feels much more clear to me.
I knew that it was going to push me to invest in myself. I knew it was going to up level me and it did, massively. It gave me a new lens to look at relationships and has brought me into myself deeper. I feel so grateful."
Logan W.
"Angela has really changed my life A LOT – I'm now married. When I started working with her, I was very single. Things had been burned to the ground essentially and I worked through a lot of my stuff, I did a lot of healing and I've been growing my business too. She's super awesome, I highly recommend her...
But only if you're ready, willing and able to do the work because it's not easy, it's not always going to be pretty, but you'll get where you want to go."
Kerry M.
“I feel more secure all around and am so excited about the future. I have less overthinking, more understanding, less dissociation, more embodiment plus breakthroughs in how I work with my emotions.”
Carolyn S.
“Dating feels a lot different now! I feel calm, clear on what I want, and I’m able to ask for what I want.
I’ve met someone who kept stepping up; I never thought it was possible to have this kind of love.”
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Annie F.
“Angela was SO validating for EVERYTHING. I have been dealing with anxious attachment, codependency and sobriety for the past few years, but never really dove deep into trauma healing. This was exactly what I needed. I was going through a rough break up and really resonated with her content on Instagram. I instantly felt connected to her.
I had no idea how so many of my habits were tied back to my trauma. It was like having a trauma encyclopedia at my fingertips lol!
I’ve developed a relationship with my inner child like never before. Since completing the program, I feel like my intuition is heightened, I generally have a better outlook on life, I feel ready for a new relationship and I’ve started an online business that I have always dreamt of having. I would definitely work with Angela again in the future!”
Jess A.
"Working with Angela was what my soul needed. She had accomplished more for me in our first session than in hours with other practitioners. Angela has a very unique gift to understand her clients, see into their blindspots, teach them what they need to know and walk with them to higher ground. She inspired me in many ways, including to step more fully into my story and purpose. I felt like my time with Angela helped so many of the pieces come together for me. I highly recommend her.”
Kim S.
"Prior to working with Angela, I was feeling massive amounts of insecurity, not feeling sure of myself, unable to really parent myself, my security was solely based off external situations, relationships especially.
She's helped me so much to tap into my inner child, my own power, my own intuition, my own wisdom and I have never felt more powerful and more confident in my life. I absolutely adore Angela, she's helped me grow immensely.
Working with her has been so cool because as I’m growing and evolving, so is my business, so is how I’m showing up. It’s just really amazing to be able to speak to my clients with a different language, be able to give them better insights and to help them peel back the onion even more in their own lives and the more I go within, the more I can help my clients go within — I just really love seeing just how it’s all manifesting and it just makes me feel super happy."
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Mike S.
"I was struggling with a situationship that had me feeling stuck among many other things.
I could instantly tell Angela “got me.” She's been there every step and season along the way. Angela really helped me see my personal life and dating with so much more clarity.
Professionally she has guided me to step in, and take over a 2.5 million dollar company while increasing my current company 25%. To say the least I have changed for the better. I cannot express my gratitude enough for the support and significance she brings. I highly encourage anyone who is open to taking a step of growth to talk with Angela and start the journey to feeling more free now! Love, your best client..."
Francine S.
"I met my boyfriend (now husband!) at an open music jam in Brooklyn, we took things slow and fell deeply into the healthiest love that grows every day.
Thank YOU, Angela, for helping me see the light and love within ME in order to open my heart again."
Julia B.
"I’m now aligned with the most amazing partner and I know it wouldn’t have been possible to even connect with him unless I worked through all the things I did with Angela’s help. We all deserve the love we desire and owe it to ourselves to uncover how to receive it.”
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Nick C.
“In some ways, before, I definitely felt like a fucking wreck. Angela showed up for me in my life in such an honest, true and generous way. My insides would be in full revolt, or wild with anger and there she was right next to me, encouraging me, seeing me. She leaned in when I leaned out, received when I needed to be heard, a masterful spiritual ballroom dance partner she knows all the steps, from meltdown to freakout, breakthrough to ah-fucking-ha, right there, in tune and happy to be dancing. With a breadth and width of resources Angela adeptly helped co-create some real internal growth in our working time together and I’m honored now to consider her a kindred friend. She’s an absolute fucking gem!”
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David G.
“Can I give more than ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ?
I’m a recovering addict with 12 years clean. I was recently in a unique cross country relationship where I tried to make up for distance in number of loving ways and I was reunited with the awareness that I have a pattern of attracting emotionally unavailable partners.
I’ve shared things with Angela that I may never share with anyone and I've had some very intimate relationships in my life. And I feel good about it. I feel honored. And as a result I’ve learned to honor shadow aspects of David that I was unaware of before.
Angela taught me about my masculine/feminine wounding, showed me coping skills and taught me self-soothing techniques. She has helped propel me forward on my healing journey! I’m so grateful for you…you’re a bad ass!”
ABOUT ME
Hi, I'm Angela.
I have over 15 years experience in the personal growth, development and leadership field. I'm an attachment-based and trauma-informed relationships coach. I started Epic Initiator Coaching almost 9 years ago.
I have successfully coached epic personal, business and love-life transformations in 1:1 clients, couples, business partners and in group coaching containers.
I support leaders, high-achievers, high-performers and purpose-driven people in relationship transitions whether through dating, healing from divorce, navigating business relationships and dynamics, and new commitments into marriage.
My mission is to provide world-class support in aiding others on their journey to healing and experiencing more: more love, more ease, more fun, more joy, more bliss and more abundance. I'm a certified Coach + Energy Leadership Practitioner through the Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching (iPEC), the International Federation of Coaches (IFC) and am a certified Deeper Dating Coach through NY Times Best Selling Author, Relationship and Intimacy Expert, LCSW and Psychotherapist, Ken Page.
I've also completed numerous courses with industry leaders and experts in the trauma, attachment, neuroscience, emotional healing, business, community and relationship fields such as Mastin Kipp, Derek Rydall, Dr. Margaret Paul, Alison Armstrong, Aubrey Marcus, Erick Godsey, Caitlyn Howe, Kyle Kingsbury and pursue continuing education credits through the National Institute for the Clinical Application of Behavioral Medicine (NICABM), Science and Non-Duality (SAND), and the Multidisciplinary Association for Psychedelic Studies (MAPS) among others.
I would love to meet you, learn about your unique journey, the challenges you're facing and help you to illuminate and interrupt old, stuck patterns so that you can finally create the kind of love and relationships you deeply desire.